A matter of choice?

Was reading a blog of a frd jus now (not in de main blog links)

realised that she is having a hard time with her marriage, so decided to leave a tag on her tagbox to console her... after 5 mins, she called... apparently she was monitoring her blog...

she called and told me that her husband has been fooling outside. I asked her how did she know, she said tat one of de ladies called her...

She does not know wat to do... I never advise her to divorce. But rather, try to sit down with her husband and talk to him and see what both can do abt it.

She said that she did try... but it doesnt work out... she is considering divorce but i told her tat its not easy for a couple to get married in de 1st place wor

she knows it too.. but she jus cannot accept wat her husband has done... but she also don wan to break up de marriage jus like tat...

she wans to keep de marriage but she cant accept wat her husband has done.. contradicting but true...